It's pretty clear from my reading of the (EU) laws that giving prominence to "Accept all" and not having the same level of prominence for "Essential only" is not acceptable. US is a whole different story, but has some bright points: GPC is already required in several states, and spreading. This removes the need for a consent banner to show on screen, which is great.
Our primary job is to make our customers compliant, so we try to "push them into the valley of success". That means GPC and DNT "do the right thing" by default, no deceptive design (dark patterns), etc.
Our primary job is to make our customers compliant, so we try to "push them into the valley of success". That means GPC and DNT "do the right thing" by default, no deceptive design (dark patterns), etc.