And how exactly do you know how much time Musk spends with his family?

This torrent of baseless confabulations about him is truly disgusting.

Statistics. He has apparently 10 kids with however many women while being a workaholic and a tweetaholic. How much time could he possibly spend with them?

Well, no, primal fear alone doesn't make you a good father, quite possibly the opposite if that's all you have.