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> The computer is in your pocket. It's always on. Your social life is probably half online, half in person. Your school work is online. Your family is online. your reputation is online (as evidenced by those fucking blue checkmarks). The abuse is now on a highway into your life, even if you want to turn it off.

It is still a choice to participate online. I'm not on Twitter or Facebook or anything like that. It doesn't affect my life in the slightest. Someone could be on there right this minute calling me names, and it can't bother me because I don't see it, and I don't let it into my life. This is not a superpower, it's a choice to not engage with social media and all the ills it brings.

Have I occasionally gotten hate mail from an HN post? Sure. I even got a physical threat over E-mail (LOL good luck, guy). If HN ever became as toxic as social media can be, I could just stop posting and reading. Problem solved. Online is not real if you just ignore it.




The attitude of "If you don't like it, leave!" is allowing the bullies to win.

Minorities, both racial and gender, should be able to use social media without having vitriol spewed at them because they're guilty of being a minority.


They can use a different social media. That toxic social media then gets a bad reputation.


What happens when every major social network has a bad reputation?

"Start your own" isn't really a viable solution since the greatest challenge of making a social network is getting people to use it.


This is yet another antitrust issue, regulation should be put in place so that a private company cannot have own a platform with a market share large enough to become "the" public square.




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