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Some thoughts about taking responsibility.

From an old boss: “Excuses are like assholes. Everyone got one and they all stink.”

From a friend’s dad who was an excellent trial attorney: “If you’re explaining you’re losing.”

From my kids 4th grade teacher: “While that may explain, it does not excuse.”




Along these lines is “sorry with an explanation/excuse is not sorry”.


There is no room for the word “but” in an apology.


> “If you’re explaining you’re losing.”

that was Reagan, IIRC




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