This kind of helicopter parenting encourages the child to break your trust even more. Instead of regulating what your child does online, be very transparent and talk about out all the perils of such services. Be ready to invest considerable time with them that encourages physical outdoor activities instead of being lazy and hoping internet will be their parent and then micro manage stuff.
Most people don't actually either know what the perils of such services look like in enough practical detail to describe it to kids, and if they do, they generally feel very uncomfortable describing such things to their children. Ironically the logic is that kids are too young to hear about such things like that and need to be protected against even hearing about it. Seems counter productive to me, but also seems to be the way of the world.
Not this time, I mostly agree with the comment I was responding to, in general.
However the tone implied a “know-it-all-it’s-easy-just-do-this” solution, which, as everybody who has had children knows, does not exist. Every child is different, and they all respond differently to the same thing.
Furthermore the comment gave explicit orders and judgments of other parents, which, if he is not a parent himself, is completely unacceptable (and even if he is, it is still unacceptable). The rule is simple: never ever judge a parent. You do not know the sh*t they have to deal with (and tbh the same goes for non-parents too…).
Obviously giving advice is completely fair, but the tone matters.
A: “it’s important to communicate honestly with your kids and spend time with them in a way that provides them alternatives to common yet inferior modes of living life”
B: “To suggest such, you must not have kids yourself”
Is someone feeling inadequate? Better to look into the mirror than to try to turn it on those who challenge you
So is this like the Signal PIN which is required when installing on a new device? If you forget, the cryptography changes and old contacts are warned that signatures are rotated, right?
Quite. I have yet to manage a verification between clients.
I have had all variations of clients ignoring requests, reporting requests only for the requesting client to ignore the response. Both ends quitting declaring that the other end cancelled, asking for the other end to input a code while the other end shows no interface for doing so.
It marked the end of me using Matrix as a platform. I'd go back to the old IRC channels if there were anyone still there.
Usually AWS is pretty good at hiding all the reliability and robustness that goes onto into making a customer's managed service. Customers are not made aware what it takes.
An interesting experiment would be doing the equivalent at the scale of the median saas company.
Setup mongodb (or any database) so that you have geographically distributed nodes with replication+whatever else and maintain the same SLA as one of the big hyperscalers. Blog about how long did it take to setup, how hard is it to maintain, and how much are the ongoing costs.
My hunch is a setup on the scale of the median saas company is way more simple and cost effective than you'd think.
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